This is my experience of learning about relationship. Well, i'm not gonna tell you about my love life :p But i'll share what i learned recently about relationship. Many of us think that relationshipis cool. Having a boyfriend is everything. Can't live without them.. etc2.... Well, i'm not judging everyone, but in my opinion, to make a relationship, to build it, u have to know the purpose of it first. In everything u do, before u do it, u have to know what is the purpose of doing it, am I rite? For example, if u go to college, u have to know first, what u want to be in the future, then u decide which college u're going. The purpose of relationship is marriage, building a family, finding your life partner that God sent to help u in the future. I witnessed so many people that didn't know the purpose of relationship but making it, and ended up hurt. Gratefully, I never experience it, God forbid me in a very weird way :p A year ago, I almost have a special relationship with someone, but it ended with my big spiritual brother yelled at me and forbid me to do it hahaha.. At first, I really mad at him, I mean who the hell are you forbid me to do that?? But now, I know he did that to protect me, and I know he did it because he loves me as a sister.
I read many books about relationship, one of them saying this
"A right person in the wrong time is wrong"
Until u really ready for commitment, just stay single. U still have a lot to do with your single life! Trust me, married is not that simple, and being in a relationship somehow can resist you of doing your purpose. Moreover, if u're doing it with a wrong person.
Remember, the best things in life, never come easy! So keep waiting, until the time has come ^^
